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defining our terms…

14 Nov

We are put here on this beautiful Earth to live a life of love & joy. We are here to experience all that life has to offer. The ups and downs, the swings and roundabouts. All learning experiences and experiences that should ultimately¬†create a life of joy. So why do so many of us let our lives be defined by other people’s terms, other people’s wishes.

As children we do what our parents tell us to do and for the most part we are given rules and regulations to keep us safe. It gives us boundaries and a foundation from which to grow. Then as we get older we are supposed to define our own terms for living, yet so rarely do we get to do this. The society in which we grow up in plays a big part in moulding us, not always for the better. And even when we are doing things in a way that is not congruent with our heart and soul, if the rest of society is doing it then we are less likely to question it and rather follow blindly the terms that have been set before us.

This has to change.

We need to start defining life by our own terms, by what makes our heart sing. The only way we can get to experience the quintessential truth of who we are is by defining the terms of our life, following the rules that we were born with, which if truth be known is usually only one rule Рto live a life filled with joy and love.

It doesn’t matter what anyone else is doing. Follow your heart, your mind and your gut. These three brains make up one big brain that can put you on the right path to living a life that is blessed with great joy, abundant love and wonderful experiences. A life which is defined by our own terms is a life well lived. Don’t go to your deathbed and wish that you had done things differently. Live, love and laugh your way through a life filled with wonderful memories and cherished relationships. These will be the things you take with you to your next life.

Until Next Time…Think Big & Blossom!


lights, cameras, action!

20 Mar

It is a brave person who can follow up their words with action. As I go about my day my focus has been drawn to people who say everything you want them to say but never actually follow through with action. I have been guilty of this too. This year I am trying to ensure that I follow through with action and this includes the words I say to myself. Cause let’s face it, this person is the most important person you should follow through with. It is so easy to speak with flowery language. These days we bandie about I love yous and forevers like they are hellos and goodbyes. I feel frustrated that we are not more careful with our words,  that we don’t think before we speak. I want us to remember that words are very powerful and even more so when they are follow through with action, so we need to be careful of whose heart we play with, even when it’s our own heart… especially when it’s our own. There is nothing worse then breaking your own heart because that can be one of the hardest things to come back from. There are no outside influences to blame. There is only you.

So, be true to yourself. Be careful with your self talk but most of all, be gentle with your heart. May your actions speak louder than your words.

Until Next Time…Think Big & Blossom!

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